Went to help mum in the market
Then went home, bath..
mum n her fren went to Vesak @ Orchard
while i waited for bro to finish his tuition
then tcher cavin drove us there..(:
When reached, was raining super heavily.
he dropped us at Paragon, then we walked over to ngee ann city to find mum
found mum, aunt and mum's fren
walked ard the stalls, spending up the coupons.
Then aunt took us ard to take pics..
aunt is doing volunteer work there..
but she slack awhile, bring us ard..hee(:
After buying everything n taking pics, aunt went back to her stall
then the rest of us walked to Far East there to take bus 54 home.
Then use com and watched tv le..all the way till 10++
before sleeping, i msg baby that i was sick and wanna rest early.
then just when i was about to slp, the
NIGHTMARE happens !
Mum and Dad had a big fight..
over passport..
when dad was in hospital that time, we confiscated his passport
so that he wun alays go m'sia n anyhow eat things
then becoz he today going m'sia with a fren
he QUARRELED with us.
a very BIG one.
he noe that his passport is with 2nd sis.
he called her in the middle of nite telling her that he want his passport no matter wad
he says he will go over at 5am.
WTH
sis needs to work la. and she is already marrried
and is staying with her in-laws
so mum threatened that if he dares to do so,
mum is going to call grandma and ask her to be the judge
see if dad is right to do so.
then dad just keep shouting..
mum didnt want to quarrel with him at first.
but in the end, she shouted at him.
this is the first time that they are having such a big fight
actually mum has been tolerating alot.
she envies her friends having their husband bringing them to temple n so on to pray
but mum has never expected her husband to do so
coz its just impossible.
he would only fetch his frens here n there.
but not his wife or children. except bro..
dun say mum, i also hoped that my dad can fetch me frm sch or out
but he done so only when he feels like it or when mum told him to do so.
i really missed the days....
when dad's full job was a taxi-driver.
he would always bring bro n i go zoo or jurong bird park every mon as that is his rest day
but when is the last time he did that?
so so long ago that i dun even rmb.
but dad was really too much ysd
he says mum has been living on him for all these years
HEY! my mum has been a housewife taking care of us for so many years'
do u think if u n ur 4 children would survive without her?
NO! u dun care abt us.
dun say abt bro, just we 3 sisters.
especially me.if we have anything, we would rather tell mum than telling u.
but we care abt ur health thats y we stop u
we dun wan to see u landing in hospital again
u shd noe ur health condition
ur kidney is alr nt functioning v well.
n e amt of insulin u take starts to increase coz u r nt having a gd diet.
but wad u say to mum lat night?
die die lor
bro n i haven finish studying lehs
next, wad u say?
ask mum n bro go work, u stay at home?
come on la.
mum didnt go out n work, but the work she do at home is enuf ok?
did u helped her? NO
instead, u add on to her work
sis n i would help mum with her housework whenever we can.
u drive cab, tired
then mum sleep later than u, wake up earlier than u.
do some work, go market, come back, take a short nap
(sometimes dun even have time) then start preparing for dinner, wash clothes, fold clothes n so on........
u go drive cab, eat what u like.
that time when u are discharged, you stay at home for so many days
mum went to work
u only helped her to hang clothes out
cooked lunch? in the end u make the clothes smelly coz u fried fish with clothes in kitchen
then u keep saying its bored
sis finally agreed to let u drive cab
n this is wad she get?
Eldest sis went for wedding dinner ysd
Received my msg, 2nd sis call..
she cried.
dun even dare to come home
keep calling and msging me
to make sure things are ok le
then she come back
2nd sis took a cab n rushed back.
returned u ur passport le..happy with that?
this morning, u can still come n ask me to charge phone for u?
i still did coz u r my dad
but did u think abt the things that u say ysd?
isit fair to mum? to us?
u never thought abt things tht can be said n those that cant
w/o checking things out, u say bro had so much $ coz he steals?
but u dun have any proof that he did that..
everytime oso like that.
that time say bro join gang, alr said u cant say that
yet u did it again?
everytime like that
u shd noe that bro listens to u more than mum
he likes u more than mum
but u r destroying all these.
U say all these trouble ysd r caused by us
U think we v free ah? Sis today no need work?
i no sch?
We all do things for hu?
nth do mehs?
U r nt being fair to us.
wadever lahs. but wad u say abt mum ysd is just too much
is this wad u shd say abt a wife, a mother hu has been taking care of the family all these years?
I got nothing else to say..................
p.s. i am merely ranting here..
i guess this would be e 2nd time i saw we 3 sisters crying over family matters
within a year..LOL
